A reader asks:. We seem to get asked this one a lot So let's address it: how to give a girl oral sex. This is one a lot of men seem to struggle with, but you may be relieved to know it's actually much simpler to learn how to give a girl orgasms through oral sex than it is to learn how to give her orgasms via penetration. In fact, all you need to make a girl orgasm from oral is a little patience
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We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved. Note: Just remember these are general tips. Focus on a slow buildup maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session , then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm. Try circles, moving your tongue up and down, or left to right. When going down on your partner, you can supplement some tongue action by using your hands to stroke the clitoris, play with the labia or finger her. Using your hands can double or even triple the amount of sensation you can create, and can give your mouth a break when you need it. Mind reading is overrated.
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Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better. Mix it all up by bringing your sex life into new and unexpected places. If your mouth and hands are tired they do a lot of work all day, we get it!
Instead of engaging in a spelling bee during oral sex, take some advice from me — a seasoned lesbian with over two decades of experience both receiving and giving oral sex. Communication during oral sex is about more than just moans and heavy breathing though that counts, too! You want to maximize your partner's sexual pleasure, and that means communicating with her before, during, and even after the act. Where does she enjoy being touched?